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Rare disease claims life of baby Tommy

11:29am Tuesday 1st May 2007

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A BABY born with a fatal genetic condition has died at the age of three months.

Tommy D'Attorre was cradled by his devastated parent as he lost his battle for life in Derian House children's hospice.

He was suffering from a chronic form of muscle weakness called SMA (Spinal Muscular Atrophy), which has no cure.

The beautiful child with the hazel eyes brought heartbreak and love in equal measure for his parents, Ralph and Siobhain, and they knew that their time together would be short.

The couple were with Tommy at Derian House in Chorley when his condition began to deteriorate.

"He was having trouble with his breathing, and we were walking with him in the garden," explained his 43-year-old father, a business management consultant.

"We sat on a bench and we were both crying as we could see he was drifting away.

"But we held him and he died with a smile on his face."

The couple then got Siobhain's two children, Callum, aged 12 and six-year-old Mairead, and the family sat with him for a while as they said their goodbyes. They had been determined to have little Tommaso Peter at home with them in Hallbridge Gardens, off Crompton Way, after the devastating diagnosis of Spinal Muscular Atrophy robbed them of hope he would live a long and healthy life.

The condition is the most common single genetic cause of death in infancy, but the odds on Tommy being born with it were still 10,000 to one.

It occurs because of the combination of two rogue genes his parents unknowingly carried.

Today, his family were trying to come to terms with the loss of the baby whose movement was so limited but capacity for bringing love boundless.

"He was a very special child and we will never forget him," said Mr D'Attorre.

The funeral will be held at 10am on Tuesday, May 8, at St Osmund's RC Church, Breightmet.


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Ian Upton, Bolton says...
12:36pm Tue 1 May 07

We know Ralph and I would like to pass mine and our condolences onto Raplh and his family.

Ian & Helen

pip, bolton says...
12:51pm Tue 1 May 07

RIP beautifull little one x

pip, bolton says...
12:52pm Tue 1 May 07

RIP beautifull little one x

graham, europe says...
1:19pm Tue 1 May 07

RIP little child, your short life brought much happiness and many smiles in nature's special way. Your Mummy and Daddy are proud of you.
Sleep in Peace.

m in bromley cross, BX says...
4:37pm Tue 1 May 07

What a tragedy - my heart goes out to the family. I am sit here at work with tears in my eyes. truly sorry

Norm Johnson, Scottsdale, Arizona says...
5:44pm Tue 1 May 07

Our son AJ was diagnosed with SMA 6 months ago. He is also fighting for his life. WE are, hopeful for a cure.

Kerry, Bolton says...
7:06pm Tue 1 May 07

Rest in Peace little angel. xx

R, Bolton says...
8:25pm Tue 1 May 07

Baby Tommy made a huge impact in such a short time and will be sadly missed but never forgotten.x

Lindsey, Bolton says...
10:36pm Tue 1 May 07

Poor little mite, when I read this in the paper today I to had a few tears in my eyes. I feel so sorry for the family, what a beautiful little boy he was. Bless you all.

Bren, says...
11:15pm Tue 1 May 07

Sleep in peace little one.

Kathryn (nee: Gleeson), Burlington, Canada says...
12:43am Wed 2 May 07

Heaven has received another angel! Our hearts are with you all. Your family and friends in Canada.

J huette, says...
1:31am Wed 2 May 07

So sorry to hear about Tommy. My heart goes out to the family.
Fly high little guy, Fly free of disease.
www.our-sma-angels.com/elizabeth/

Sheila, USA says...
4:17am Wed 2 May 07

Rest in peace little, your sarounded by love. SMA is so horriable, my son age 2 also has SMA, and its a bigger fight then most think, we need a cure! www.allrloveforsky.blogspot.com

Tommy's Dad, Bolton says...
7:31am Wed 2 May 07

Thank you all for your kind words... Losing a loved one is never easy but to lose ones child is something else and our hearts go out to those of you in similar positions.

Tommy's Dad, Bolton says...
7:46am Wed 2 May 07

Morning Tommy, time for our favourite nursery rhyme... Baa baa black sheep, have you any wool?
Yes sir, yes sir, three bags full!
One for the master, one for the dame,
and one for little Tommy who lives down the lane... rest in peace Tommy, mummy and daddy love you very much.x

Paul Stallard, Teddington says...
9:17am Wed 2 May 07

Ralph is the brother of Carlo D'Attorre who is married to my sister Julie. We send our heartfelt condolences to Ralph, Siobhain and family. Little Tommy brought a lot of love (despite his condition) into the D'Attorre family and the world and no matter how long you live you can't do more than that. It was special to meet him.
All our love Paul, Jane, Jack and Charlie Stallard ****

maggie r, says...
12:37pm Wed 2 May 07

sorry about your sad loss.rest in peace you little angle.im thinkin of your family at this sad time.good night god bless

Gary Lovatt, Bolton says...
2:03pm Thu 3 May 07

Ralph and Siobhain,

We've followed your story with sadness. Hope you can find strength at this sad time, we're all thinking of you.

Maxine - ROT Mersey, Merseyside says...
2:47pm Thu 3 May 07

Ralph and Siobhain,
So sad to receive email about Baby Tommaso Peter.
Thinking of you and your family.

Maxine

Carole Cooper, Bolton says...
2:51pm Thu 3 May 07

Ralph and Siobhain

I was really sorry to hear a few weeks ago that little Tommaso was poorly and my heart went out to you all ...

My thoughts and prayers are for you all


Aunty Anne, Reading says...
5:26pm Thu 3 May 07

Tommy you were a little flower, lent not given, to bud on Earth and Bloom in Heaven.
Eternally bloom little one, you are an inspiration.
Lots of love from Aunty Anne, Uncle Jam and your cousins Adam, Danyal, Faris and Sami.

Circe Cox, California says...
8:07pm Thu 3 May 07

I AM FREE

I am free, don’t grieve for me
I took His hand when I heard him call,
I turned my back and left it all.
I can not stay another day,
to laugh, to love, to work, or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way,
I found that peace at close of day.
If my parting has left a void,
then fill it now with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss,
all these things, I too shall miss.
Be not burdened with of sorrow,
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
I savored many friends,
good times, a loved one’s touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief
don’t lengthen it now with undo grief.
Lift up your heart and share with me,
God wanted me now, he set me free.


Claire, Bill & Hollie, St Helens says...
6:17pm Tue 8 May 07

A little angel who touched the lives of so many, and we feel honoured to be of the many.

Ralph, Siobhain and children, we are so sad for your loss.

Bill, Claire & Hollie

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