I RECENTLY went to a wedding where, for the first time ever, I found myself in the “posh” half.
Now I come from Burnley originally, so you can imagine how that came as a bit of a shock to the system.
Earlier this week, when I was telling this to someone at work, they turned round and said: “But why were you surprised? You’re so middle class.”
Now that comment hurt.
You see, all my life I’ve seen “middle class” as something I wouldn’t want to be.
Strictly working class, me. A Burnley lad with working class parents, parents whose idea of a good time was going to the local socialist club to hear Tony Benn play a few Billy Bragg covers about the evils of Thatcherism on a type of guitar made by a women’s co-operative in Venezuela.
It wasn’t just my family either — my friends were working class, too. When we were younger, one of them started seeing a clever girl who became a student at Cambridge. It was never going to last.
Especially not after he went to visit her and declared, at a dinner party full of her new, posh, friends, how “my chips taste funny”. They were parsnips. Parsnips. Officially a middle class vegetable until 2003, and this was about 10 years before that. Needless to say, they split up soon after.
Anyhow, even when I ended up at university with posh, middle class pals, I was still working class.
When I started working as a reporter, I was working class.
Even when my dad’s heart broke, because I wasn’t making anything “useful” with calloused hands, I was still working class.
I remained steadfastly working class even when I went to see performance artist Marina Abramovich at Manchester International Festival.
And enjoyed it.
I have also considered guacamole to taste better than mushy peas and listed Chekhov as one of my favourite playwrights for a number of years.
Despite this, I was still working class right up until Tuesday — when I started to think about my lifestyle in the light of my colleague’s lighthearted jibe.
So I devised a test. Ten questions designed to prove to myself whether I was, in fact, middle class. I asked myself things such as “Do you listen to Radio 4?”, “Do chips count as one of your five a day?” and “Isn’t George Michael’s recording output as a solo artist far superior to that of his Wham!
Days?”
At the end of the quiz, I was badly shaken. According to my own research, I was firmly middle class after all.
I immediately put Adele on the iPod and made myself a green tea to collect myself. I was devastated.
I felt like Charlton Heston right at the end of Planet of the Apes, except with more organic vegetables in my fridge.
I had to accept it: despite my upbringing, I had finally moved into the middle class, alongside David Cameron and 59.9 million other Brits.
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